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The divorce process can be very stressful, complicated, and expensive. For some, it helps to think of the divorce process the same way we approach voting. You have to choose the lesser of two evils.
The following are some of the more common reasons to file for divorce.
- You are in an abusive relationship (mentally, physically, or emotionally)
Yes, you are ready for a divorce. Perhaps you don’t feel emotionally ready to consider divorce yet, but the fact remains that you are reading this article for a reason and once you have freed yourself from abuse, you will be a stronger (and eventually happier) person.
- There has been an affair or any betrayal of trust in your relationship
Forgiveness is the true clue on whether or not a divorce is necessary. For some, an affair is simply unforgivable no matter how hard you try. Certain efforts can be made to rebuild trust and restore a healthy relationship, but if it just “doesn’t feel worth it” anymore, then you are most likely ready for a divorce, and ready to move forward with your life so that you will be able to find that loving, trusting relationship you deserve.
Though most commonly drugs or alcohol, an addiction can also include television, video games, or other vices that a person will use to “numb” themselves. This leaves their partner feeling frustrated, worried, and even lonely. When somebody has lost control to an addiction, they are unable to function properly, especially in a relationship, most often resulting in a divorce.
- You just can’t seem to get along
There are a few marital deal breakers in an otherwise healthy marriage that might lead to consideration of divorce. These deal breakers may seem and feel trivial but in many cases these differences place a wedge between two people, and eventually result in a "‘no fault" divorce. If the only thing you and your partner can agree on is the option to file for a divorce, then you are most likely ready for a divorce.
The following are common deal breakers in a relationship that often result in a no fault divorce:
- Difference in religious or political beliefs
- Spending habits
- Parenting habits
- Lack of balance with responsibilities (paying bills, childcare, household chores, etc.)
- Social life differences (for example, a social butterfly and a homebody are often led into two different directions)
- Different sexual appetites (it goes without saying that this can cause a problem, but it is also one of the leading causes for divorce)
If none of the above apply to you…
Believe it or not, a marriage without any arguments or disagreements is actually very unhealthy.
It is important to understand that disagreements are important for a functioning relationship before considering a divorce. However, people change, opinions change, and relationships change… sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. What it boils down to is that if you aren’t getting along with your spouse, if you aren’t truly happy, then you should talk about divorce with your partner to see if this is something you might agree on.
There are other reasons why divorce would cross your mind. For some, divorce is threatened to send the message that there is a problem and you are not happy. In other cases, divorce is mentioned as a way to gain control over a partner (in which case there is an emotionally or mentally abusive relationship and a divorce is actually recommended), but more importantly, if the idea of divorce has been brought up, then it should be taken as a sure sign that the relationship is suffering some major problems.
If you have divorce on your mind, even in passing thoughts, you might be ready to understand your options for divorce. Consult with a divorce lawyer to learn about the divorce process that you could expect to go through if you decide to pursue that option.
A divorce lawyer can help you understand what will happen in the divorce process. No matter how complicated (or simple) you anticipate your divorce to be, speaking to a divorce lawyer will help you better understand and prepare for the process. A divorce lawyer can help ensure your paperwork is filled out properly, and avoid any complications that could make the divorce process more stressful.
You don’t have to have made the decision to file for a divorce, but talking with one of our courteous staff can assist you as you explore your options.
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Can anyone get a PA No-Fault Divorce?
NO. One party must be a resident of Pennsylvania for 6 months in order for us to handle your case. This process is best when both wife and husband will cooperate and sign forms.
What if my spouse will not sign divorce papers?
Both parties must sign based on the latest updated laws to do our lowest priced divorce. If your spouse will not sign, you may have some other options if you file a divorce in your local county where you live. You must be separated for more than 2 years in order to do a Pennsylvania Divorce without your spouse's signature. If your spouse can be served and he/she does not respond, you may be able to get your divorce without signature. Even after 2 years, your spouse could contest the case. No divorce is automatic though and your spouse could always contest the case.
When is a PA No-Fault Divorce NOT appropriate?
In general, if there are property or economic issues that can NOT be resolved, a No-Fault Pennsylvania Divorce is NOT appropriate. A marital home or pension can often times complicate a divorce. You must contact an attorney to discuss these issues before deciding on a No-Fault Pennsylvania Divorce.
How long does a No-Fault Pennsylvania Divorce take?
Your separation length will help determine the divorce length. Pennsylvania No-Fault Divorces are filed as more than 2 year separation or less than 2 year separation cases. For greater than 2 year separation cases, the Pennsylvania Divorce generally takes between 2.5-3 months. If you do not have at least 2 years of separation, the case generally takes around 5 months.
Will I get a final divorce paper?
Yes. The plaintiff always receives a certified final divorce decree upon completion of the Pennsylvania Divorce. The defendant will receive a photocopy of the final divorce decree, but could pay a small extra fee to also receive a certified divorce decree. You should save your final divorce decree for future reference and it will be required if you get married again.
How do I start my PA No Fault Divorce case?
Please contact us by e-mail or telephone. We will need to gather some information from you and arrange for payment. Some important information that we will need includes Name and Address for both spouses, along with the marriage date and place and approximate separation date.
How much is your PA No-fault Divorce Fee?
Our no-fault divorce fee is $500 and includes all court fees! You may also come in to meet with us rather than starting the case online. Fees could vary if there are any economic issues that you need us to deal with or if both parties will not sign.
What if we have Property or Other Economic Issues?
We may be able to help you deal with more complex issues, but we would need to meet with you to discuss your specific case. Please call or e-mail us for an appointment. If appropriate for your situation we may be able to prepare agreements, negotiate on your behalf, or proceed with a contested divorce for you.
How do you differ from other online divorce services?
Your divorce is actually fully prepared by our attorneys, while some websites offer kits and require you to file documents yourself. We are your lawyer and we will make sure that the divorce is done properly. Our firm is a 2nd generation family business which Robert Reinherz started in 1980 and son, David Reinherz, joined in 1998. Our attorneys are easy to contact and will explain everything in a down-to-earth way. We want to make the process as pleasant as possible for you. Your divorce will be done as fast as possible and will not be held up for any reason within our control. Once all legal waiting periods expire, we will expedite your case.
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